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Many women find themselves confused by the way that men act in dating and relationships. What with the shift in the traditional gender roles and the fact that men are not quite so open as women, it's hard to know what men want in a relationship. If you want to find and keep a relationship or improve the one that you are already in, you need to know what is important to your man. To ensure a great relationship, here are 6 essentials that he wants in your relationship: A Woman Who Respects and Values Herself If you don't consider yourself valuable and worthy of his respect, then he's not going to either. Unfortunately, there are a lot of men out there who will take advantage of your good nature if you let them. Whilst they may try to push the boundaries, what men want in a relationship is a woman who respects and values herself. If you act like a doormat, he may trample all over you and then leave. If you have a healthy amount of self respect and do not let him walk all over you, he will see you as a quality woman. Make sure that you value yourself enough not to tolerate any excessively bad behaviour. Sensuality, Softness and Femininity A soft, loving voice or touch; your best nurturing qualities; your sensuality and sexuality. Your feminine attributes are very attractive to a man as his masculine ones are to you. Emphasize them as much as you feel comfortable with if you want to increase the attraction in your relationship. He won't be able to resist you. Trust and Security Aside from the obvious monogamy, he wants to be able to trust you with what he says without fear of ridicule or emotional overreaction; to feel that he can say anything to you. Men often fear emotions and if you become critical or hysterical when he tries to open up to you, he will quickly learn to shut down and not tell you things. If you want to feel close, he must be able to trust you to accept him and his decisions. If you can both communicate openly and positively, your relationship will be a much more secure and loving place. His Space You may be in a relationship but does that give you the right to tell him what he can and can't do? If you tell him what to do he will view you as a mother figure rather than a girlfriend or wife. A man is not happy unless he has space and time to do his own things. He doesn't want to be smothered or nagged. Men are project orientated and supporting their projects is essential to his happiness and your future. Take away his space and he will start to resent you. If you want a great relationship, allow him the freedom and space to do the things he needs to do. A Happy Partner Men love to make women happy. He will go out of his way to do things for you if he knows you appreciate it. However, he doesn't want to feel responsible for your happiness. That is up to you. You need to have your own sources of joy and happiness and not depend upon him to be your sole provider. Friendship, Love and Affection Obviously, these are prerequisites for a relationship. In order to survive, your relationship must have more positive times than negative. It is easy to let these things slip away and hardly notice until they are gone. Make sure you make an effort to keep these qualities alive in your relationship in order to keep your relationship alive. Now that you know what men want in a relationship, you can use this information to cultivate these qualities in yourself and your relationship. By putting these points into practice, you can ensure that yours is a great relationship.
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