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The first tell tale sign that a man will need to decipher is the eyes. Always try to steal glances at your sweet heart to catch her attention. Then quietly observe her to see if she reciprocates. If she enjoys your attention, she'll do her own testing and return glances your way to see if you're really checking her out. If she is returning your glances, you're in her good books. Here's when many impatient men make a mistake. They make their moves too early. At this stage, all the man knows is that the girl doesn't hate him. But there's still a need to learn more about her habits, her likes and dislikes, her interests and so on. In other words, taking the time to find out more about the girl will really help. Friends are a great help if they're available and you happen to know them but what if they are not available? Then your only option is to rely on your observation skills. Any little bit of information may come in useful later on. When you feel comfortable enough, it's now time to look for the right opportunity to speak to the girl. The wrong way to do this is to memorize some cheesy pick up lines and repeat them from your head. Never, ever use pick up lines. They make you look insincere, and it's kind of hard to generate a good conversation from a pick up line anyway. The right way to do this is to connect with the girl. What is she doing right at that moment? For instance, if she's buying coffee, go over and say something like, "I see that you like ice blended mocha. I like coffee too. Can I buy you a coffee some time?" Now if you do something like this, do not be too bothered about the answer. Watch out for the second tell tale sign: the body language and the tone of voice. Is the girl moving away from you physically? Does she sound pleased that you went over to talk to her? If she isn't moving away, and she sound pleased, the answer would be a likely, "Sure, I'd love to have coffee some time." Finally, be sensitive and don't be a jerk. If it's time to back off, back off, and wait for another opportunity.
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