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Making out for the first can be a greatly enjoyable experience. It is, after all, through this first time make out that you get to make it clear to your partner that you love them at a physical level, and that you are keen to take your relationship with them to the next level. Making out for the first time can of course also be a greatly daunting experience, depending on how you go about preparing for it, and what your expectations about it are. The first step towards making your first 'make out' with your partner a positive experience is preparing yourself adequately for it. Preparing yourself adequately for your first make out will involve things like working out what your expectations about the whole affair are (and how they compare with the 'reality'), as well psyching yourself up, because the easiest way to pull all the wrong moves as far as making out goes is by entering into the scene while unsure of yourself. In preparing yourself for the first time you make out - with a view to make the first make out a positive experience - you of course also have to work on your anxiety about the event, in case you have any. Making out, as you will come to discover, is not something that you just turn to your partner one day at tell them that you think 'it is time we started making out.' On the contrary, getting to the point where you can make out with your loved one is a journey, that typically has to start with small talk, before turning into more intimate talk, and then turning into ordinary dating, and finally moving through the different phases of dating before getting to a point where you can be making out. The moral here is that you need to be patient on this journey, and keenly watch for signs of receptivity (or subtle repulsion, as may be the case) from your partner –and then act accordingly. If it is more of the later (the repulsion) to your moves that you seem to be getting, then the solution would not be to give up on the relationship, as fortune favors the patient, but rather to work hard at the relationship. If you work hard at the relationship for long enough, chances are that soon or later, your partner will be more receptive to your moves. When the time for the actual making out comes, ensure that you display deep passion in the way you go about it. The passion that you will be able to marshal when making out is really a function of the emotion you feel about your loved one. Ensure too, that you restrict yourself to 'making out' moves that your partner is comfortable with, lest you be rebutted. In this respect, your partner might be comfortable with something like heavy petting and not French kissing for instance, and it is up to you to respect their preferences (while also subtly communicating yours). Finally, ensure that you get to enjoy yourself when making out for the first time; and remember that even if you don't get it perfectly right that first time, and provided you don't make the major unforgivable faux pas, chances are that you will still get another chance at it sooner than later.
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