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You have to guys who have asked you out. How do you make a decision? Just like any other decision, when choosing between two people who are so different on your prom night, you have to make the decision from your heart. You may know these boys on different levels. You may be hoping to know one more than the other. Before you make a decision about which one to take to the prom, the popular guy or the not so popular guy, ask yourself a few close questions. You may be surprised at who you pick. Prom is supposed to be an enjoyable evening. The first thing you want to consider is how much fun you will have with one guy or the other. For example, let's say that this is the first time that you have gone out with the popular guy. You know what your friend is like and of course they are fun. But, is the other guy? He may seems so in from what others have told you, but why not hang out with him a few times before making this decision to make sure he is someone that you actually could have fun with? Next, consider your friend a bit closer. By asking you to prom, did your friend want to believe that your friendship could be more than that? Prom is often an evening for a bit of romance, on the clean side of course. If you do not think you will have a romantic evening out with your friend, then this may not be the right date for you. On the other hand, you may be hoping for a more fun and happy prom, rather than romance. Ask yourself which guy can make that happen. In either situation, you could run into problems with your friends. Perhaps one will be hurt by not going with you. Perhaps you know someone else they can go with? Under it all, though, you have to make this decision based on how you feel about your friend and the popular guy. Just because he is cool does not mean is he fun. Just because your friend is a lot of fun, you may not want to go with just a friend. When it comes to making this decision, take your time. Most importantly, be sure that your friend and the other guy both get a fair shake. Do not disregard their feelings or avoid the underlying topic: whom do you want to go with? Once you have made your decision, talk to the other guy about why you made the decision you did. This is just as important as making the decision itself. You want to be sure they know you took the time to consider both options.
Elaine Lynn is a loving mother, photographer, and home business owner living in Pennsylvania. She has great passion for fashion and writes and comments on prom dresses & evening gowns.
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